Menu Plan Monday 7/9

Here's what we are eating this week, starting on Saturday, because well, we were on vacation, so my grocery store day was set by default.

Saturday: Crock Pot BBQ Pulled Chicken, mashed potatoes, green beans (the crock pot typically gets more use in the winter around here... but with these temperatures in the 100s, it was SUPER nice to have dinner without the whole house heating up or asking my husband to grill in the extreme heat)

Sunday: leftover chicken, salad with Zesty Avocado Cilantro Buttermilk dressing (a pinterest find... healthy & delish!)

Monday: Rice & bean burritos(modified to serve 2), guacamole & chips

Tuesday: Grilled Turkey Burgers, grilled veggie kabobs (zucchini, yellow squash, onions)

Wednesday: Rosemary Rubbed Pork Chops (a favorite from last summer), Antipasto Salad

Thursday: Southwestern salads with avocado cilantro buttermilk dressing

Friday: Pizza Margherita (our basil is growing like a weed!! If only my cilantro would do the same.)

Saturday: going to a wedding!! woo hoo!! 

for more menu planning ideas go to  http://orgjunkie.com/2012/07/menu-plan-monday-july-912-giveaway.html

Menu Plan Monday (aka what we've been eating)

Well, it's safe to say it's been almost 4 months since I've written one of these posts. Perhaps there is some correlation with the fact that Kyler is also almost 4 months old...

Anyways, I did not plan out meals while I was on maternity leave (March and the first two weeks of April), and then I attempted the next two weeks to do so but will admit that I have some AMAZING friends who brought me meals AGAIN once I returned to work, and my husband and I decided that if I am working, we might as well take advantage of my income and get takeout at least once a week. Which was nice, but I honestly did miss cooking. There is just something satisfying about knowing what is actually in what I'm eating.  And I think in general, I eat healthier when I cook versus when I select something off of a restaurant menu.

MENU PLAN FROM MAY 2012

In May, I started menu planning again, but as I was trying to just survive the school year, I never posted about it.  I used the "Once a Month Mom" Whole Foods May 2012 menu and selected a few dishes off of it and as her recipes suggested, made a double batch.  

So in the month of May, we had these dishes twice: 

1-Spicy Beef Lettuce Wraps (I actually made these again tonight with turkey instead of beef, and I cooked 1/2 cup of quinoa and added it to the mixture to stretch it a bit farther- you don't even notice it's in there- yum!... oh and I also left out the peanuts, used red pepper flakes instead of the sriracha and used many more green onions)

2- Sesame and Cilantro Vermicelli Salad (again, left out the peanuts)... and I made this again tonight as a side with the lettuce wraps

3- Grilled Pork Chops with Garlic Lime Sauce

4-Summer Vegetable Chicken Enchiladas

My thoughts: I really liked having meals in the freezer while I was working... I wasn't a fan of the way the vermicelli thawed- it tasted too watery, but the rest of the stuff froze beautifully.  I don't have a need to do once-a-month cooking right now, but I'm sure I will again once school starts.  I think selecting just even 4 dishes off of a menu like the ones on that amazing blog can be a huge help! 

Other things I've been cooking: 

Oatmeal Blueberry Applesauce Muffins- These were Grant's birthday treat!

Virgin Mojitos- I made a mint-infused simple syrup and then added fresh lime juice, more mint leaves, sparkling water & ice... yum!

This week's Menu Plan

Mon: Pizza with Grant's parents and cousin

Tues: Spicy Turkey Lettuce Wraps (see above), Sesame & Cilantro Vermicelli Salad (see above), strawberries

Weds: Goat Cheese, Pesto & Red Pepper Pizzas with Tomato, Watermelon, Tomato & Mint Salad

Thurs: Roasted Sweet Potato & Black Bean Burritos (I roast onions and sweet potatoes and then half the ingredients-they sound weird but totally work- from this recipe)

Fri: leftovers

Sat: leaving for vacation!

Sun: vacation!

Have a good week!!

Lessons Learned: Random Thoughts Part 2

14 weeks into parenthood, here are some of my thoughts/questions. I don't even know who/ if anyone reads this blog anymore since I stopped writing for a few months when I returned to work, but if anyone is out there (I know you are K.L., and thank you for being my faithful audience! You too hubs!!), feel free to answer my questions! (however some are simply rhetorical...)

1- Why do they put the sayings/ prints/ etc across the front at the top of a onesie? I know that's where it belongs, but due to the bib(s!!) my little guy is always wearing, you will never know that he is "the smallest OSU fan," a "party pooper," a "Miami baby," "mommy's little tiger," etc unless I take the bib off for a picture. Perhaps they should put such sayings in a different place.

2- Why is it that whenever we are trying to rush out the door, the magical angle of the car seat makes him poop? Never seems to happen when I'm not in a rush.

3- How do you convince a baby that is super hungry or super tired that if he stops screaming he can eat or sleep?

4- I wonder if the reason so many moms "let themselves go," aka stop caring about their appearance is partially due to the reality people will only glance at you but will stare at your baby forever until you start to walk away?

5- Why doesn't every retail business have a drive thru? It would be so much easier to get errands done if I didn't have to get him out of the car. Starbucks at Morse and Hamilton, please consider this. It's pretty easy to convince me I deserve a treat these days. However... My secret wish is that I lived somewhere where I could walk everywhere... Like a small city in the south of France, perhaps?

6- How is it that we think it's so cute when babies have chunky thighs, chubby cheeks and multiple chins, yet we spend so much time and money trying to avoid these things? (I am NOT pro-obesity or anything, I just find this humorous!)

7- Why are the cup holders on my stroller so shallow? Is it a scheme to get me to buy the extra one that attaches on that I have yet to figure out how to install? If I never had to maneuver thing over any bumps perhaps that shallow one could work.

8- Why don't adults smell as good after a shower as babies do after a bath? Is it the products or do babies just smell better?

Well, that's all for now. Enjoy the cute pics of my little man... One with a bib, one without;)

Three months!!

The little babe is not so little anymore. Weighing in at 12 lbs, 13 oz (as of last Weds, so it's probably more now), he is nearing the end of his time in 0-3 month clothing and size 1 diapers.

The past two months have been CRAZY trying to balance working full-time and still loving on him as much as possible. His daycare providers love him but it still breaks my heart that he is there for 9-10 hours a day. Can I say we were thriving as a family these past few months? No, but we love being parents, and we have been surviving. Looking back, if I had a choice, I would have taken a bit more time off of work.

One of my love languages is quality time, so naturally when I'm with Ky I want to be 100% engaged, not multitasking. As soon as we walk in the house we have mama and Ky time, where I put him on my lap facing me with his back resting against my legs. Until it is time to feed him, we talk and sing... Ok, I sing, and we both talk, gazing into each other's eyes. It is one of the highlights of my day. He loves songs with motions, like "Head, Shoulders, Knees and Toes," (which we sing in English and French) and "If you're Happy and You Know It." He smiles all the time and every now and then he will giggle and it is just so sweet.

We still have him sleeping in our room, which was part of the survival plan until summer break... But tomorrow is the last day of school so we may be transitioning him fully to his crib. He had been napping in it on the weekends. Speaking of sleeping, he now will lay his head on your shoulder. Melts.my.heart. I had the privilege of nannying for my nephew five years ago over the summer, and I still remember how sweet he was when he would do that when he was tired... It's even better when it is your own kid. Love my cuddly boy.

He rolls onto his left side all the time, grabs onto toys and loves to suck and chew on his hands... I just can't wait to watch him grow and develop this summer!

Lessons Learned: random thoughts part 1

Disclaimer: I downloaded the blogger app... So I'm typing this on my phone. I don't have time to sit at the computer now that I'm back at work so unless I stop giving assignments that need graded, this blog will only get updated if I can multitask and blog while feeding Ky.


In the 65 days Ky has been in our lives, I have learned a lot:

The Emotional:
1- I never knew it was possible to love someone this much. I love my husband so much it's ridiculous but this love is different.
2- having a child makes it easier for me to understand how much God loves me, which is also ridiculous.
3-a lot of people told me I wouldn't work as hard at work and I'd be running out the door to get him as soon as the bell rang. While I did that on day 1, I've been working 6:45-4:20, picking him up, coming home and feeding him and then working again for an hour or an hour and a half at night. I have the desire not to work as hard but I can't bring myself to do so (and I'm not sure I even know how). So for as long as I'm teaching, I'll be giving it my 100%.
4-picking him up from day care is worse than dropping him off. It's then that I realize I am paying someone to watch him while I watch other people's kids. (ok, I am teaching them French, not babysitting, but when you teach classes with large amounts of freshmen boys you spend a good portion of the period on classroom management.)

The practical/not as serious:
1- I want to hold him all.the.time. This means I quickly learned the value of wearing your baby (currently using and love the Moby Wrap), having a device that has Internet access that I can easily access (I think I've used our real computer like 3 times since he was born)
2- taking a meal to a new mom is one of the best things you can do. I have been taking new moms meals for the past four years but never realized how much of a blessing doing so is. I am so thankful to all of you who bought us gift cards to restaurants or made something. And a huge thank you to those of you who brought me a second meal to help me survive being back at work.
3- I was right when I suspected that if I wasn't a napper before having a baby, I wouldn't become one after having one. Sleep when the baby sleeps... Ha. Props to those of you that are good at napping. I am an accidental, not an intentional napper. Put me in a car or in front of the tv and I might just fall asleep. When Ky does sleep, I do things I can't do while holding him. Makes sense to me :)
4- The iPhone is the greatest invention ever for a mom.I feel like it is my own little robot. From this device I can: call, text, take great pics and videos and easily share them, play my family and friends in scrabble and draw something, listen to my music, read my daily devotional, check and answer my work emails, surf the web, create Facebook albums, update this blog, renew the library books I don't have time to read, google whatever is freaking me out about Ky to find out if it's normal... And the list goes on. Let me just say that when you spend 1.5-3.5 hours of your day feeding your kid, it is awesome to be able to accomplish a few things. When I'm not using it, I am praying. Another good (actually a better) use of feeding time.

March 1, 2012 :-)

Baby boy was due on February 25, 2012 but decided he was not ready just then. I went in on Monday, February 27 for a non-stress test, and after being told by my doctor that there were no medical reasons for me to stop working just because I was overdue, I sucked it up and went to work. She did schedule an induction for the following Sunday, but I was praying he would come before then.

I worked all day Tuesday (no signs of labor) and Wednesday was such a toss up. I did not want to go to school because it would be a 13+ hour work day- I arrive at around 6:30am and we had parent-teacher conferences after school until 7:30pm... but also if I went into labor that day, I would have a leap year baby... which though it would be cool, part of me felt sad thinking that our little guy would only have a true birthday every four years. Well... he didn't want to come on Wednesday, so I had a delightful (ha) 13 hour work-day. I even stayed a few minutes after 7:30 because I was madly grading essays written that day by my French 4/5 students so my sub would not have to grade them. As I had done the past three weeks, I left with everything ready in case I was not the one teaching the next day. 

I arrived at home completely exhausted and went to bed at 9 pm... only to wake up at 12:05 am with lower back pain and I felt really hot and sweaty. I remember thinking "I don't know if I'm going into labor, but baby boy, I love that you waited until 5 minutes after leap day if this is really the start of your entrance into this world!" A little while later, I had a contraction with pain that wrapped around the front and back, which was completely different from the contractions I had been having for pretty much the whole month of February. After hearing so many stories of "false labor" I decided I would just lay there... so I downloaded an app on my new phone to track my contractions and basically lay in bed wide awake all night. Grant got up at 5:30 (I did not wake him up because he said he had a sore throat the night before and I did not want to have a baby with a sick husband!), and I was like "sooo yeah I was up all night having contractions but I don't know if they are real." I had non-stress test #2 scheduled for that day (so I wasn't planning to go to school anyways, but was thinking about going on Friday if the baby still had not arrived), so I figured they would tell me at the doctor's office if I was really in labor. 

I ate a small bowl of cereal before my appointment (this is one change I would have made had I known I was going to go into labor...) and then did the test. We both did awesome again, and you could see that I was having contractions on the print out... I asked the nurse if this was the start of labor and she was like "well, I can't say you are in labor for sure, but I do think you will not make it to your induction date." So basically, she told me nothing. I drove home and decided it would be smart to do start like 5000 tasks around the house since I had the day off. The contractions continued and they hurt but I still didn't think I was really in labor (looking back, what was I thinking?!?) so I started like 5000 tasks around the house... started being the key word. By lunch time, nothing I was doing was making the pain any better and the thought of food made me want to vomit, so I didn't eat. 

My Mom called me via Face Time and I quickly told her I would not face time (again, looking back, the fact I didn't want to be on camera?!?) but would talk on the phone. My friend and neighbor Katie called and said I could come over but I figured I was too much of a mess, and again didn't want to be around people. She wisely advised me I should probably try to eat something because I would need the energy if I was really in labor... so I chocked down like two crackers. Then tea sounded good so I made some... had a sip... and my water broke around 2:30. I decided finally I should tell Grant to come home (he had been calling every hour but I kept telling him I was fine and didn't know what he would do if he was here anyways), and by the time he arrived I was even more of a disaster and could barely get my last few things in my hospital bag. 

My wonderful husband drove as fast as he could to the hospital (most miserable car ride of my life) and we went up to labor and delivery... where the woman basically told me she wasn't sure my water had broken, so I was left there in triage while they "looked for the house doctor" or something. The contractions were awful by then, and finally I was like GRANT, I've had enough. Get someone. The nurse came and checked and said "oh you are about 6 centimeters, so we can go ahead an admit you." Thanks. By this point, I knew I wanted meds. They gave me a few bags of fluids plus an antibiotic and then probably an hour later I got an epidural... which was amazing. 

praise God for my epidural :-)

 After not sleeping and not eating, I just needed to rest a bit. They only had it at 50% strength so I still had complete control of my legs and felt a lot of pressure. They checked me immediately after they inserted it and I was already at 8-9 centimeters! I'll leave out the rest of the details for blog world (but just ask next time we talk if you want to know!), but after some pushing, some resting and letting him move down on his own and then some more pushing, Kyler Lane was born at 11:10 pm on March 1, 2012. He weighed 7 pounds 9.6 ounces and was 20.5 inches long. And is completely adorable.

just a few minutes old

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